October 2020 Blog

​As our temporary alternative services drag on and on we can only hope that we are learning from this horrible catastrophe that has been put upon us. It will be long after we are gone that historians will slice and dice what we have done, what we have done right and what we have done wrong. But we know, as all the twelve step programs say, we cannot control the events around us, we can only control our reaction to them. What are we doing here at the Center? Well, we brought in a new team who are dedicated to virtual services, who are making sure our clients are fed, are engaged and are getting help and encouragement to keep thriving even though home bound. We ae working daily to try to make sure you are taking care of yourselves, that you are exercising your body and your brain and that you are eating right.  We want every one to be safe and to never forget that we are in this together. You may not know Jay, Nancy, Sylvia and Anne very well just yet but you will get to know them as well as you know me, Bootsie, Brandon and Fredo. This team is every bit a dedicated to making sure that you are the best that you can be every day. Even though the faces change, the spirit stays the same and all of that good energy gets channeled into being healthy, being well and being active in mind and body. We are in touch with the State and the county every week to keep up to date on how the pandemic affects us but as yet, we do not have guidance for when we can visit you in person or, more importantly, you can visit us. We do recognize that we are in the highest risk group but we also recognize and try our best to impart to those who are in charge of these things, the damage that is done from isolation and depression to say nothing of having nothing else to do but eat – How many of you have gained unneeded weight? – It just proves we are better  together than we are apart no matter our differences. Please join us as best you can on-line. That connection is of critical importance to your health and to you well being. We will continue to stay well, to be better and to thrive but we will only do it by forming a net to support each of us on our bad days and to relish in our good days. Check out what is happening on the activities - let us know if you want lunch – but mostly just keep in touch with us and your friends here at the NVC.

September 2020 Blog post 

As we wind down the summer, the temperatures remain very high here in the desert and it seems fall will never come. It is hard to believe that we are approaching six months of being forced to suspend our in-person services and that there is no end in sight. The latest from the Governor’s office only adds to the uncertainty as the goal posts continue to shift and we are confronted with the alternate realities by our less than reliable media. One startling piece of data I read this morning was from the CDC. It stated that, as of the August 22 count of 161,392 COVID related deaths in the USA, only about 6% of the people had COVID alone. The other 94% had an average of 2.6 additional conditions or causes of death. Additionally, 91% of deaths were in people over the age of 55. Another report I read discussed the fact that in Japan, the number of deaths among the older population recorded is significantly lower than in the United States in terms of percentage of the population even thought Japan reports one of the oldest average populations in the world. Let us look at what these disparate pieces of data might mean. First, the CDC data certainly exposes the greatest risk to death from COVID is among the older, sicker population. In Japan, prior to the advent of long term care insurance coverage, the elderly and the chronically ill were mostly care for at home. Apparently, that has changed and nursing homes, assisted living and day care are becoming the norm. However, the culture of respect for the older population has resulted in a higher level of visibility of the care providers which in turn has resulted in better infection control and overall higher level of care than that which we provide. To be a care giver, to be a geriatrician, to be a long term care worker is a respected and well paid job in Japan. All of that means they are able to care for and protect their high risk population much better than we. With all the billions and trillions of dollars being discussed and allocated to healthcare, why not take a large carve out and allocate the dollars to improving the care to the segment of society most at risk? Not only would this help rid us of COVID-19 but it would ameliorate future cases of flu and viruses. And even, more important it would celebrate and honor those folks who have brought us into the world, have supported and care for us and have been there for us for all our days. Maybe it is time to return the favor.   Contact our local congressperson, Raul Ruiz:   or our state senator: Melissa Menendez: .“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, determined citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” (Margaret Mead) ​

August blog 2020

​When we look back on this spring and summer, I wonder what will stand out in our memories. I have been working here for 15 years. There have been hundreds of people who have come in our doors, who have joined in our programs, who have made friends and become part of the Stroke Recovery Center/ Neuro Vitality Center family. There have been many folks both clients and staff who have come and gone but always at the core, there has always been the reason that we are here. We must never give up. No matter how hard things seem to be – and they have been very hard for many of you – there is always hope for better days ahead. We have to keep reaching for tomorrow whether it is in the gym, challenging our brain power, learning new ways to do things or just enjoying a conversation with a friend. Who ever would have predicted that we would fall victim to a pandemic but isn’t it just the same thing we have been dealing with? We are not victims when we are at the center and we will not be victims now – we are survivors. In the months we have not been allowed to have folks here at the center in person, you have learned how to use your phones, your computers, your tablets and keep working on your health, join with friends in group activities, work with Nancy, with Anne, with Bootsie and with Elsa to keep yourself engaged and active. For those of you doing speech therapy you work with Mike, with Sandra doing your exercises and continuing to make progress. Stand back a bit and congratulate yourself. You have overcome the isolation by embracing new technologies and have stood up to this virus and are winning. I don’t know when we will be able to put all this behind us but we can be proud of the spirit and the tenacity. We are not victims, we will never be victims – we are survivors . Bring it on – we can handle it. 


We are definitely late getting our blog and our calendars posted this month but we want everyone to know it is not because we haven’t been working for you. We are trying to do all we can to make this time valuable and facilitate some positivity out of what is arguably, the most negative time we have seen. No one discounts how hard it is to self-isolate, to stay at home, particularly with no end in sight. Especially for those of you who are used to coming over to the Center, working out, visiting with your friends, having lunch, enjoying activities and doing all those things we have always taken for granted. Well, no longer. Now we know how precious those things are and we will never take them for granted again. I wish I could say that this will all be over next week or next month, but while I am tracking all the information I can and am meeting weekly with representatives from the State, we really have no idea when it will be safe for us to all get together in -person and return to our prior life. But what can I say? First, I want you all to know that we are here for you. We are at the end of the phone, we are on-line with ZOOM, we are able to meet with you individually if you need extra help. We will make sure that the Center stays ready to reopen at a moment’s notice as soon as the State and we both feel it is safe and secure for each of you and for us as well. We are committed to giving you what services we can on-line and will provide tablets and instruction on how to participate.We will present a full schedule of activities for each of you to join in and see your friends as well as challenge your brains and your bodies. We will send a lunch home for you if you need or want it. (Menus and Activities calendars are on the web site.) Please let us help you to get through this pandemic, let us help you to keep active and let us help you to keep working on getting better. We are able to do group activities, individual therapies for Speech and for exercise  - the more of you who want o join in the better. We may not see you in person but we are still here working for you everyday. Give us a little time and maybe we will even come up with some parties…..you know we are good at that. 


 Neuro Vitality Center is offering access to our VIRTUAL CENTER to all of you who are sheltering in place because of your chronic illness, your age or your disability. Now you will be able to take part in group activities including exercise, yoga, group discussions, individually needed therapies and, if you wish, a home delivered lunch. Every day will offer opportunities to join with your peers, meet new people and participate in competitions, sing-a-longs, educational programs and many other programs.  For those of you who have IEHP, Molina or Kaiser MediCal insurance coverage, we will offer medical treatment and needed therapies along with the group activities and home delivered meals. For those of you who do not, we will offer a full menu of group activities, some special exercise groups and a home delivered meal. Give us a call to put together a program specific to your wants, needs and financial situation.   We have to stay home for our safety and the safety of those around us – let’s make sure we make the best of this and join together to help each other through this terrible time.  We are at 760-323-7676 every day Monday – Friday from 8:00am to 3:30 pm.Look forward to talking with you and having you join us in fighting this pandemic together. ​